The Tiny Habit That Changes Your Curl Days

This morning I stood in the mirror, curls doing their usual Tuesday chaos.
But instead of jumping straight into “fixing mode,” I slowed down.

Most curl troubles don’t start with the products.
They start with rushing.

When we rush through our routine — yanking through tangles, slapping on conditioner, rinsing too fast — we skip the one habit that quietly transforms everything:

Letting your conditioner sit long enough for the slip to do its job.

I know it sounds simple. Almost too simple.
But here’s the truth most people don’t realize:

Slip is a process.

Your strands need time to absorb water, soften, relax, and release each other.
When you give your hair that time — even 60–90 seconds — detangling becomes kinder. Curls clump easier. Breakage goes down. Frizz chills out.

Here’s the technique I followed today — and what I want to teach you:

The Detangling Rule

1. Wet your hair fully. Not “kind of wet,” but drenched.

2. Apply conditioner starting at the ends. They’re the driest, they need the most attention.

3. Stop. Don’t rake yet. Let the conditioner melt for a moment.

4. When your hair feels heavy and slippery… that’s when you begin detangling.

5. Move slow. Your curls respond to gentleness faster than pressure.

And the craziest part?
This whole routine takes the same amount of time as rushing — but the results feel like peace instead of a fight.

Today, my curls rewarded that little pause.
Strands separated without resistance.
Clumps formed like they were relieved I finally listened.

What you can learn from this:

When you slow down your conditioner moment, everything else becomes easier.
Your curls aren't difficult — they’re just asking for time.

One minute of patience can change your whole wash day.

If you try the Detangling Rule this week, tell me how it felt.
Share your results, your questions, your tiny victories — I’d love to hear your curl story!